Frequently Asked Questions

The first session is usually about: · Getting to know each other · Discussing what brings you to therapy · Explaining how the therapy process works and the specific therapeutic approach · Asking any questions you might have · Deciding if you feel comfortable working together

Relationship therapy creates a supportive environment where couples can explore their connection, improve communication, and work through challenges together. It's a space where you can better understand each other and find new ways to connect, whether you're going through difficulties or simply want to strengthen your relationship. Some psychosexual therapists are also trained in relationship or ‘intimate partner’ therapy, (including myself) which means discussing sexual and other types of relationship issues with more than one client at a time.

Every person's journey through therapy is unique - there's no "one size fits all" when it comes to how long therapy should last. While some people might find clarity and direction after just a handful of sessions, others benefit from longer-term support that spans several months or even years. It's often helpful to start by agreeing on an initial number of sessions together- typically starting with at least six - to give the therapeutic process time to take effect. At this point, we can review your progress and goals together, deciding whether you'd like to continue, adjust your approach, or feel ready to move forward on your own. Remember, you're always in control of how long you stay in therapy. Some people use therapy as a short-term tool to work through specific issues, while others see it as an ongoing investment in their mental and emotional wellbeing. The most important thing is finding what works best for you, and I am here to help with that.

While relationship therapy typically works best when both partners are willing to participate, speaking with a therapist individually about relationship concerns can still be valuable. They can help you explore your feelings and develop strategies for your situation.

Relationship therapy can be particularly helpful when: · Communication feels difficult or strained · The same arguments keep happening without resolution · You want to feel closer but aren't sure how · You're facing big life changes together · You'd like to strengthen your relationship before problems develop

Not at all - psychosexual therapy can be helpful for both individuals and couples and groups. You can start alone and if you are partnered and wish them to join therapy, we will work out together how best to make this happen.

Psychosexual therapy can help with many concerns, including: · Challenges with physical intimacy · Building sexual confidence · Processing past experiences that affect current sexual wellbeing · Navigating different needs or expectations around sex between partners · Specific issues like pain during sex, difficulties with arousal, or changes in desire

Psychosexual therapy offers a safe, confidential space where anyone can talk about sexual concerns affecting their life or relationships. These topics can feel sensitive to discuss, but as a psychosexual therapist I am specially trained to help individuals and couples explore everything from physical challenges to emotional concerns about intimacy and sexuality. No physical or sexual touch takes place as part of the therapy sessions, my psychosexual therapy practice is rooted in talking therapy. I often provide resources and exercises in sessions that form client homework, to give the client time and opportunity to engage in the interventions over the course of therapy but I work with clients to make sure all resources are accessible and understood before doing so.

While general therapy and counselling help with a broad range of life challenges like anxiety, depression, or stress, psychosexual and relationship therapy are specialised approaches for specific concerns. Think of it like seeing a GP versus seeing a specialist - while a GP provides excellent general healthcare, you might see a specialist for specific medical concerns. Similarly, psychosexual and relationship therapists have additional training to work specifically with intimate relationships, sexuality, and couple dynamics. They use targeted techniques and approaches that focus on these areas, rather than the broader emotional support you might get in general counselling.

Pluralistic therapy is a flexible and collaborative approach to counselling that recognises there isn’t a single right way to support everyone. Developed by Mick Cooper and John McLeod in 2006, this approach is based on the idea that different people benefit from different therapeutic methods, and what works best for you should be at the heart of the process. Instead of sticking to just one style of therapy, pluralistic therapists draw from a range of techniques—such as cognitive-behavioural strategies, person-centred talking therapy, or mindfulness—depending on what suits your needs and preferences. The focus is on creating a personalised experience that helps you move forward in a way that feels right for you. One of the key principles of pluralistic therapy is open, two-way communication. Rather than the therapist deciding what’s best, this approach encourages an ongoing conversation about what’s working, what’s not, and what might be helpful moving forward. Whether you prefer structured techniques or a more open-ended, reflective space, pluralistic therapy adapts to what makes you feel most supported. By combining different tools and perspectives, this approach ensures that therapy is not just effective but also empowering—helping you take an active role in your own journey towards well-being.